Oral sex is a cornerstone of many people's sex lives, and whether it's your main act or relegated to the realm of foreplay, there are always ways to hone your skills and make oral feel even better.
Our top oral hack? Use flavored lube. But before we get to that, let's talk a little about the basics.
Warm-Up Is Key
You may think of oral sex as the "warm-up" to penetrative sex, but the key to great oral is taking time to build arousal. Before your clothes even come off, play with the pressure of pressing your thigh between your partner's thighs. Run your hands over their body, gently massaging their butt, thighs, and hips, increasing blood flow, sensitivity, and arousal.
Once clothes are off, don't dive right into things. Take your time to kiss, nibble, and lick the areas around their penis or vulva. Use your breath to warm or cool their skin. Bring your kisses right up to the edge of the pubic area, then move away again. Anticipation is your friend! Building up arousal helps lead to bigger, better orgasms.
Warm-up also engages more of our sexual anatomy. The clitoris runs all along the vulva, with the clitoral legs being behind the labia majora, surrounding the vaginal opening. Remember that clitorises get erections just like penises. Applying pressure against the labia by stroking or massaging leads to more blood flow and a more engaged, more engorged clitoris.
Similarly, the erectile tissue of the penis extends beyond the visible shaft. Pressure and rubbing on the taint—behind the testicles—can stimulate the internal erectile tissue and indirectly massage the prostate, a pleasure powerhouse.
Mix Up Your Sensations
Rubbing, stroking, and nibbling doesn't stop when oral sex begins. Once your mouth is on your partner, don't forget about your hands. Scratch their thighs, cup and massage their balls, or run your thumbs along the sides of their vulva while you lick and kiss.
Mix up the sensations of your mouth, as well. The tongue is a wonderfully versatile muscle. Keep it soft for broad, sweeping licks. Tense it for precise flicks on the clitoral glans or the frenulum. Purse your lips as you take the penis into your mouth during a blowjob for an increased sensation of tightness on the head.
If playing with a vulva, your nose and chin will also be in the mix. Use your face to add pressure against the larger clitoral body by wrapping your arms around your partner's hips and pulling their vulva against your face, or, if you're into it, try facesitting. Adding pressure can also take the focus off your licking and give your jaw a slight break.
Bringing toys into the mix or playing with temperature is also great. The world is your oyster!
Keep Your Mouth Moist
We teased it above, but this really is our favorite hack for oral sex. Anxiety around personal taste can be a big prohibitor to relaxing into oral play, and while we love and celebrate the beauty of our natural taste and scent, using flavored lubes can add a slight mask and may increase comfort.
But there's more to it than that! Using flavored lube during oral play increases your natural saliva production, for wetter, better play. Since our formulas are water-based, they're also toy and condom friendly, so you can give a strap-on blowjob with more comfort!
What makes Sutil's flavored lube so special?
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Functional Lubricant: Our formulas work beyond lubrication helping to soothe and support your body with antimicrobial and antifungal ingredients.
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Irresistible Flavors: Coming in Vanilla, Coconut, and Mint, our mouth-watering organic flavors are safe for ingestion and fun to explore. Unlike many other flavored lubes, we don't include sugar or glycerin, which can disrupt your body's natural balance.
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Silky Smooth Formula: Beyond the taste, our water-based formula, featuring hydrating powerhouses like plant-sourced hyaluronic acid and oat beta-glucan, provides long-lasting, non-sticky lubrication for ultimate comfort and glide. It feels like your own natural wetness!
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Oral Pleasure, Amplified: Perfect for oral sex, these lubes turn every kiss and lick into a delectable experience, without being overly sweet or leaving a chemical aftertaste.
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Body-Safe & Worry-Free: Made with high-quality, Eco-Certified ingredients, our lubes are free from parabens, glycerin, synthetic perfumes, flavors, and dyes, ensuring you can focus on pleasure without any concerns about irritation or adverse reactions.
How to Use Sutil's Flavored Lube for Maximum Enjoyment:
Using Sutil's flavored lube is incredibly easy and intuitive, designed to seamlessly integrate into your intimate moments:
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Shake: Give the bottle a quick shake before use to ensure the natural ingredients are well-mixed.
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Apply: Squeeze a desired amount of lube onto your fingertips, or directly onto the area you wish to lubricate. Don't be shy – a little extra can go a long way in enhancing pleasure and reducing friction!
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Spread and Play: Gently spread the lube over skin, toys, or condoms. Reapply as often as needed throughout your intimate encounter.
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Explore: Since Sutil's flavored lubes are safe for ingestion, they are perfect for enhancing oral pleasure. Apply directly to your partner's skin or your own for a delicious and exciting experience.
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Clean Up: Being water-based, Sutil lubes absorb easily into the skin, leaving no sticky residue. If you prefer, you can also rinse the lube off with water.
Sex Educator Tip
Flavors create lasting memories. Bring SUTIL flavors on vacation and surprise your partner with breakfast in bed. Later, recreate that special moment back home to relive the connection.
All ideas included are for educational and entertainment value only and do not constitute medical advice. Please consult with a healthcare professional for any medical concerns.
